Is physical attraction everything?

[Jennifer]

A lot of guys can be shallow. They always want to impress their friends with the 'hottest' girl. But not all guys are like that. Today's society is so hard to live in because of standards the media and people in general have put upon us. We live in one shallow world.

I'm 5'6" and 155. I'm on the curvier side myself. I used to have trouble landing guys as well, but I found out it wasn't my weight that was my problem - it was my self-confidence. Guys like a girl who's confident in herself. They like a girl who's fine in her own body and has self-respect. I didn't learn this until I went to college. I gained more self-confidence and started going out more and eventually I never had trouble flirting and landing guys.

Once you see yourself in a whole different light and just accept yourself, that's when others start accepting you. Be more confident in yourself and your potential.