Trying to get away from an abusive relationship?

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Not good. You both are to blame.

Never expect a guy from 16-25 to act like a guy should act 28-35.

When he told you what he wanted AND you stayed, he lost a lot of respect for you AND began to believe he could treat your poorly.

People like he is, or others, look for easy marks. You have set yourself up as an easy mark BECAUSE you are not focused on yourself. Focus ALL of your energy on YOU.

1. exercise
2. join things
3. kick butt in school

And you will find that you will be happier and attract a better quality of guy.

Every single time you have any contact with him whatsoever IS a step backwards.

It's a diet AND every time you break it for a donut YOU have set yourself backwards. In this case you will set yourself backwards, months, weeks.

Have zero contact. He is extremely insecure. Any time a guy demands what you wear, RUN.


PUT all of your energy into yourself.

You KNOW those high quality guys that you dream about, WELL they are attracted to a college girls THAT have a life, are focused on them-self, and have their own passions. They are not attracted to a girl who would allow them to tell them what to wear.

You can do it.

Examine WHY you were attracted to such an insecure guy in the first place. HE WILL NOT change so do not give him a chance.