Is it wrong to keep our relationship a secret? advice?

[Travis Harris]

If you care about each other, you can't let other people's views dictate your feelings.

If my girlfriend wanted to keep our relationship under wraps based on the amount of failures we've had I'd call her crazy. I WANT to flaunt the goodness I've found. And thank the heavens above that she does too. That's part of a relationship.

History does not repeat itself. Sometimes people repeat histories. But why? Why do that when you know what you can do differently based on experience. You should just be happy. DO NOT care about what others think. Seriously. You're not in love with them are you? Or you're not in a relationship with them, right? So treat your relationship apart from everyone else. And let it be free. Don't cage it in. I believe that's unhealthy. Not that you're doing anything wrong, you're just being cautious. But throw caution to the wind. It's just like trusting someone if you're jealous. You just gotta' do it. That's life. And especially love!