I don't know what you call this feeling?

[Sharon G]

First of all it is not your responsibility to change her. Second of all, she is unlikely to change and therefore your friendship might change. Take a real good look at the friendship and see if it really is a friendship....if you say --'She never wants to go out with me unless I'm buying and driving" then it really isn't a friendship ....she is just using you as she does with others.

When you choose to "bless and release" her --this means simply moving on without judging her as being wrong....life will open up new friendship for you that are more equitable