I don't know what you call this feeling?

[Iratespoon753]

1. Stop worrying about how your friend is with her boyfriend. It's none of your business. Judge her based on how she treats you

2. just because you knew her since seventh grade doesn't mean she wasn't like this then. When you are a kid you are often blind to peoples bad sides, that isn't in your face constantly. You have grown mentally which means you are more aware of your own personality and others. You have opinions and your own values now. You knew nothing when you were younger

3. Don't be so hard on people. You may not agree to what she is doing but there's no victims here. He is willing to give her those things out of his own free will. It's his choice and he obviously gets something from her in return, which he appreciates. He chose her for whatever reason, even if you don't see it. It's not really your business to either. What works for them etc.

4. Start putting your foot down. She has this behavior towards you, because you and people around her, let her get away with her excuses. You could always drop that passive agressive behavior and insist she pays her way upfront