I need advice...am i wrong ?

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I put myself in your shoes and If I were you I would not tolerate my boyfriend/ex talk to me like that. If he does it once he WILL do it again. I also put myself in his shoes and try to understand why he is reacting lile that and came to this conclusion. Sometimes we tend to say stuff we don't mean out of anger. He could be jealous and I'm assuming you were his first love(since you took his virginity) that he is so attayched to you that he doesn't want anybody else to have you. He is confusing this with love, and doesn't know wether to stay or leave you. His family is out of the picture so don't stress about them. My advice to you is have a face to fave conversation and talk about what both of you want. since you already like the other guy I suggest you tell your ex that there is not much you can do but that he will always be in your heart. Hope this helped.