Break up after four years?

[carmen]

Your ex has seirous issues...you are a zillion times better off by yourself. It's no wonder you haven't been able to make friends at college, he's made you feel worthless.

You have to know your relationship wasn't normal or healthy...that you are still young and have every chance to find people who are better for you.

Even though I'm sure you know this relationship is better off dead and buried....you hurt this much because it's a grieving process, your life is changed forever. But the good news is that it's already changed for the better.

In about 24 hours, I suggest you peel yourself off the floor, bed or wherever you are...fix your face and make a list of all the things you'd like to accomplish the next 5 years.