Not comfortable with toddler getting mail - Anyone agree?

[Joshua Perham]

I see where you are coming from, I personally do not have as much of an issue with it. Even a letter saying "To the parents of" will still have the kid's name on it. And I know whenever I get an appointment reminder in the mail from my children's pediatrician, that is exactly what it says. My family typically sends things to the family, and not directly to my children, but it has happened before, and I just didn't think anything of it. If it bothers you that much, politely ask people who may send him something through the mail, to address the outer envelope with the family name, and not your son's.