Not comfortable with toddler getting mail - Anyone agree?

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I think the media and its constant threats and worries is making you afraid of something that doesn't exist. If anyone wants to they can easily find out your toddler's name and information, assuming he has a birth certificate. I agree with the other answerers that kids LOVE getting mail. The only way you could keep your child PRIVATE is if you never told anybody of his existence and I'm pretty sure that's kind of looked down up in our society. Sorry, I agree with your mother and I think it's sweet that your friends addressed the card to your toddler. They were obviously trying to do something special.