It's really confusing but what do I do now?!?

[Jenna]

Become closer friends with Theo!! Just because you don't know him that well now doesn't mean you can't! Talk to him.. hangout with him.. just try to become good friends.. you can do it, you did it with your other friends! Also.. it's really frustrating when friends drift or exclude you.. try making new ones! Just put a smile on your face and make yourself seem approachable! I haven't been in your situation.. I guess I'm in the "popular" crowd.. but my secret is to just have confidence and be yourself! I'm not always the most confident person.. but I act like I am.. and it gives me that boost! I used to be incredibly shy but I broke out of that. Now I can go up and talk to anyone.. it's just because I do have more confidence in myself! Anyone can do this I promise. Always be nice to people, even if you don't like them that much.. this makes people want to be friends with you because you seem happy and bubbly and just like a fun, nice person! I'm not saying go out of your comfort zone or try to be "popular".. but you can make new friends for sure! Start with Theo! He obviously wants to be friends, or he wouldn't be talking to you.. so seize that opportunity! And as for your other friends.. like have Stef and Kathy over your house! Or go out to the movies or something like that. Try to reconnect with them. It can be really frustrating because they're so close and you're not really in with them, trust me, I've been through that, but you can just try to have a fun time with them and it will make them want to include you more! Like have them over for a sleepover or something. As for Andrea.. I would kind of back off.. you can stay friends with her.. but it seems like that people she hangs around aren't really a good mix for you.. like the girl that started the fight.. and your ex.. you don't really want to be around that. Not that they're bad people, but there are some tensions that are best avoided, however, still be nice to them!!

I hope this helped! I'm sorry you're going through this but you'll make new friends!