How to get over a heartbreak after 4 years?

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This too shall pass dear. Keep trying to make friends by getting involved with groups etc... There is someone who will treat you well in your future. It may seem like it takes forever to happen but be patient. Enjoy your single life while you are in it. Work on yourself in all ways including loving yourself - the farther along you are the better the partner will be when he comes along...

Suggestion: ake a list of what you want in a relationship. What kind of personal qualities does your partner have? How do you want to be treated like:

Gentleness physically and emotionally
Social or not introverted
Generous
Patient
Clean (in all ways!)
Helps with Home Care
Good with Children
Faithful
Keeps self healthy
Wise with money/resources
etc