GIRLS: how would you of dealt with this?

[David]

You are definitely not a student of English. Your grammar and punctuation need a lot of work but never the less I think that your relationship with this young man could go further if you became a bit more mature. Take a good look at your question, read it a few times and then ask yourself what your level of maturity is. I think you will be surprised. I'm not knocking you or trying to 'put you down' but you do sound like a very nice person who wants a meaningful relationship. Try to conduct yourself with some dignity and maturity and you'll be very pleasantly surprised. Good luck for 2012