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No Future - What does NO future actually mean?
12-12-2012, 07:16 AM
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No Future - What does NO future actually mean?
I liked a colleague and ended up confessing one day. Prior to that we communicated very normally and nicely... He had once even casually asked me about my valentines day Plans etc...

1. After I confessed feelings in text ... he said he was blushing and didn't know how to react!!! He thought I hated him... What does this mean? Is blushing ok even if he wasn't interested in me?

2. After confessing that he is blushing at my proposal, he said my timing is bad. So basically he said No indirectly and said he did not see a future to this relationship... Can you tell me what he means... He doesn't find me attractive? or he has no interest in me or By no future he means something else... He is a South Indian And Im a east indian... (Hope Indian's will understand what I mean... huge cultural difference!!! ) What does NO future actually mean? Is it just an excuse?

3. He also stopped talking to me... stating he feels very guilty. He now ignores me totally and treats me very rudely.... He refused to stay even friends like we were before. God knows why?

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i will move on in life if he doesn't love me back. i have no choice... but somehow his replies fail to convince me. He could have been staightforward... whatever the reason was... see if you guys can make some sense from what he was trying to say - No future, guilty and then complete ignorance... whereas we used to discuss movies and books in texts before I confessed feelings... I used to initiate and he used to reply till late night.

He is rude coz he wants me to hate him... he confessed it once when I confronted him... then he ignores me compltely... he never replies... I have changed jobs living in a different city for many months now and I mail him sometimes.... He never replies... BTW, I told him I missed him and wated to c him very mch... he didnt reply but uploaded his latest pic after 2 days in facebook. (usually he never uploads any pics - his last profile pic was unchanged for past 8 months)... Does he pity me or is thr smthing else in his mind. what is it?

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No Future - What does NO future actually mean? - idol - 12-12-2012 07:16 AM
[] - Shane - 12-12-2012, 07:24 AM
[] - Nicole - 12-12-2012, 07:24 AM
[] - Party animal - 12-12-2012, 07:24 AM
[] - Bingo - 12-12-2012, 07:24 AM

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