My boyfriend and I are both divorced. We have a baby together- Should we not even attemp marriage again?

[LaTanya]

If you are asking this question what is the purpose of your relationship? Every relationship should have a purpose. Are you in this thing just to play house and to act married? Until you can know why you are in this current relationship I do not think you two are ready for marriage. I had a shot lived marriage by jumping into it before I knew who I was in Christ or before I knew how to love myself. Now you can't pay me to get into another relationship without certain questions being answered.

How does he feel about marriage?
Do you guys share common beliefs?
Is he ok with you just being the mother of his child and nothing more?
Does he love the Lord? I mean does he really love him, if he does he'd value marriage and want to move on from his past into a brighter future.
Do you guys talk negative about your past marriages? I hope not.

There are many wonderful benefits to marriage if the two of you are in a healthy place and are on the same page. If you are thinking about marriage to him just because you have a child together I can understand but this is not a reason to marry someone.

Whatever decision you make please don't make a quick one, pray and seek God about it and He will give you an answer. He made sex for marriage and many other wonderful things. So you have to decide first, what do you want. Once you decide what you want and that the father of your child will not be the one to give it to you or is able to give it to you. Then you make your choice, and know just because your marriage didn't work before does not mean that this one wont be great. After all you are not the same person you were back then.

Good Luck