Have you ever fought so bad with someone you really love?

[bunnyONE]

My husband and I had a rough first ten years in this regard...I came from a peaceful, loving, stable home - he came from one of alcoholism, verbal abuse, huge anger - the "twain didn't meet" until I finally laid down the "law" after getting some counseling. He was reared this way and had to relearn HOW to argue, debate, interact and control his temperment - and he did - and it was WORK to help get him there...The "glue" however? Was our deep and abiding love for one another - we wouldn't quit - wouldn't give up...

Glad in my case, I didn't...He turned into a stellar guy...Yes. People CAN change with outside help, inside help and the DESIRE to do so...

We were "living proof" of this!

Grace

PS BTW? I had no idea of the extent of the problems until AFTER we were married, as I spent little time with his family...So it was, a big shock to discover how it REALLY was in their home. Just unreal people live that way!