How do I get over him? I want to get over him so bad. I am desperate.?

[JohnS]

First you got to ask yourself this: Do you want to get over him?

And I mean really, do you want to? Or do you just think that's what you should do?

If you really honestly want to get over him, then slowly pull away. Don't talk to him, don't have him on Facebook, twitter, etc, and like someone else said, do something you love. Find a hobby and do it, it'll help you forget and move on.

The thing is though, again, do you want to do this? Maybe you should have a talk with him if you really really like him, because that's what it kind of seems like from what you've written, although I don't know the full story. If you want to go that extra mile, ask why he stopped maintaining that contact with you, and how come you guys don't talk like you used to. Rekindling your relationship is a possibility

Again, you can also pretty much ignore him completely and find something else that you enjoy doing to help you get your mind off of him. It's up to you. If you try and rekindle your relationship and it doesn't work out, there's a possibility that you can get hurt, but that shouldn't stop you, because there's also a possibility that it can work out, and it could be really great.

You should really think about what you want to do, and how you feel

Hope I helped in some way!