How to get my ex to miss/want me back?

[Francisca]

1. The first thing you need to do to get back your boyfriend is to Agree with the break up. I know it is hard and I know you probably do not agree with it. But for you to be able to move on, to get him back, you need to be on the same side as him. So let him know that you are totally ok with the break up, that you actually have thought about it and that you also think that this is the best thing for both of you right now.

2. Now you need to Give your boyfriend his space. Do not call him or text message him. Do not visit him or contact him in any way. Why? You want to give him the opportunity to miss you. If you keep contacting him, he will not miss you he will know exactly what is going on.

If you leave him alone he will start wondering what you are up to, if you miss him? If you are seeing somebody else? You kind of turn the table, make him wonder. The truth is that we want what we can not have so make yourself "unavailable" for him. If he contacts you be nice but short until you are ready for the next step...

3. So what should you be doing during this time when you are waiting to get back your boyfriend? Be the best you can be, that means stay positive, do things that makes you happy, take care of yourself. We all want to be around happy healthy positive people. You want to feel good about yourself, so when time comes your boyfriend will see the real happy, fun, positive you.

Why did your boyfriend fall in love with you in the first place? Well he did it ones and it can sure happen again. Find out what your next step should be... Go get back your ex boyfriend.