should i add my friend back or should i wait for her to come back by herself?

[chris b]

Do nothing! You can try and add her back but she has to accept, does she not? If you extend that invitation and she does nothing...leave it alone! She'll either comearound or she won't. One thing I don't get is why you told your other friend to tell her you were bored and needed to talk to someone, so she should add you back? I wouldn't have added you back either. What you said was insulting but probably the truth!!! You need to apologize to her and hope she accepts that apology.