How to become friends with your ex immediately after the break up?

[RIcky]

You can't. It's just going to make it more difficult for you to get over him. It's going to kill you every time you see him with another girl or anything he's at a party and you're home alone thinking about it. So just don't bother with being friends. Almost every guy says "let's be friends" cuz they don't want to seem harsh or mean, but they usually don't mean it. I know this is hard to hear but it's the truth. Avoid him at all cost. Delete his number, off of Facebook or twitter. Whatever. The more you get rid of the memories the easier it will be to get over him. I don't believe in being friends with your ex. My ex and I have been broken up for 2 years and I still don't speak to him.