How do you get over your first love of 3 years?

[Leen Gene X]

I'll try where Im not good at giving some advice for that kind of issue about moving on. Im also feeling very hard on moving on but you have to hate that person or he must give up on you so you can both move on?

Right now...you must be hard to believe its over but everything has an end. I've been through with it many times and really i never thought i would meet someone new but FIND someone who can make you more happy and if he you think is the one then don't let him go. 3 years is very long year and if this is just ending so soon then you have to atleast Fight for it? Do something about it emotionally and physically.

Then don't be alone for this... only you and him can feel these pain maybe you have to Open Up to him soon.. Find out the reason why it has to end? Is it for good or not?
If its good then make him as your friend? If not then completely move on.


If i am in that situation I'm gonna feel VERY TERRIBLE(sadly) but look at the bright side dear cause there are many people in this world that can FIND you attractive and can make you happy then it just grow there IF you let it happen. It also happen to me that missing a person so much means you have to be strong... But sad...i know it.

but if there is no more time you can't make him feel you love him then its unhealthy and so you have no more choice but to just move on.ACCEPT IT whole heartedly! IF he found out your not moving on well he might come back for you just let him know... he may feeling the same as you are right now. and maybe there is a good reason that this relationship has to end? We may forgot to be optimistic on these because your heart is really looking for some healthy relationship.

Sorry about the hurt you are going through. promise yourself to be strong. Know your decisions well before you do something. Best of luck dear.