Tired of this situation.?

[sacredclay]

She has been married to him for 9 years so she also has relationship with his family members as well. You can suggest to BF to start a new tradition where another Christmas Breakfast can be celebrated in your home between BF, the kids, and you. Afterwards, you guys can go join the other family members to say hello. This woman is always going to cause problems. The only thing you can change is how you react to it. Make it clear to her that she is not to disrespect you and the kids. But be polite. By showing good manners at all time, you will come out on top. BF needs to learn how not to be baited by her. He should screen all calls from now on to make sure contact is minimized between her and him. Sometimes the ex-wife is being bitchy simply because she knows how to get his goat. Now take that power out of her hand by refusing to react the way she expect you to. Good luck.