Would you say my girlfriend is controlling?

[Beach Bum]

You need to start acting as ridiculous as her.

Let her know that you expect equal treatment or else you will not treat her like an equal.

It took me a while to realize why hanging out with my guy friends would make my boyfriend jealous - I honestly had to reverse the situation. I would hate it if he hung out with a bunch of girls without me. When my guy friends protested, I asked them if they would like their girlfriends' hanging with a bunch of guys they didn't know. Every guy then respected my decision to remain friendly, but not hang out with them like I use to.

You have to make her listen. How will your relationship last if you can't communicate with her?