Do you think I am a Tomboy ?

[rabidtotoro]

I think that you have the key to what you are asking.
Be yourself.
I think the phrase "Tomboy" and our expectations on how people act according to their genders is old outdated and stupid.
One thing you should admit to yourself is you are indeed a nerd. Love it.

Also don't feel the need to define and pin down your sexuality.
I'm gonna say you are only 14 but don't take in a negative way - take it in a "you have your whole life to find out what being you is. you don't need to peg it down right now."
People spend their whole lives asking "who am I'? and you know finding out slowly is the right way to do it.
Some people make all sorts of decisions and then regret them.
Some people don't even once ask "who am i ?" and they are also making a big mistake.

It's the social anxiety that makes you feel confused a lot. if people are your friends then, well, they are your friends and it doesn't matter who they are sexually. it's money that's important. (I'm joking.)
Live your life the way you feel comfortable or at least find out what makes you comfortable.
If your friends are your friends then they won't pressure you with stuff.
If anyone tries to change you make sure you feel okay with the changes.
If they are "be more comfortable in the long run but things will make you feel better later changes" try and go along with them but don't let you ever stop being you.
- and if they aren't your friends - I know it's difficult but, well who cares what they think?