My girlfriends mom doesnt want us dating anymore. what should i do?

[AuntKatie]

If you really love each other you will both be able to get through this and respect her mom's wishes until her mom lets her date you again. Maybe you need to write a letter to her mom explaining that you have quit smoking, that you will never influence her daughter to do anything that could get her in trouble, that you have great respect for both of them, and that you would like to still see her daughter, even if it is only at her house with her mom present. Show her mom that you are willing to live by the rules, that you have respect, and in time, if you show her the kind of person you really are, her mom will relent.