Ok me and my bf have been together for nine months. we were set up between our work colleagues...?

[David]

the thing is, I was not really interested, but everyone at work was egging me on to take it further and further, even though I didn't want to. with all the pressure, I allowed him to move in with me. in time, he has got increasingly lazy around the house, never doing much while I'm at work. when we go out socially, he puts me down when I'm trying to have fun, orders me to put my phone away, even though he has his phone out and is texting people!! everyone at work is heavily involved in our relationship ( even though I had asked him to keep it quiet for the first few weeks, he told everyone on facebook that we are in a relationship) and I know that if I break up with him, our work colleagues will be on my case. I'm fed up, dog tired and don't know what to do. the job market is not very good where I live. please help.