Talking to my best friend about her new bf?

[Towanda]

Ever heard about the messenger getting shot. It's her life and that could be a difficult thing to hear from a friend. You really don't have the right to tell anyone you don't want them dating someone. That's way too harsh. I might be tempted....at the right time...to say something like I hope he doesn't hurt you again and see where that goes. It's better to be a good friend and let her make her own mistakes. Like a friend of mine told me when I was hung up on an old love that just wasn't good for me. I knew I needed to let it all go but I just kept hanging on. She told me that my problem will solve itself. Somewhere in the future he will screw up and I'll look at him and be done. It will hurt but it will be over. She was right. You have to let your friend work her feelings out. They must have chemistry. A good friend is just there when needed. It sounds as though she will need you. If you feel you have to say something...bide your time and what you say...easy does it.