I wish I was more of a mean person?

[Jane]

Nothing wrong with thinking and thinking more of yourself, than others is not a bad thing. You can choose whether to address an issue or not, it will just depend on how much importance you place on this and whether you choose to give it your time or not. So, its putting yourself first and deciding whether to give the other guy a second thought or not, is again your choice. You hold this power, don't forget this because you are just as important and your comment matters just as much as anyone else. Don't think about it, own it and know it. Take care.