Why is he mad? I'm so confused?

[Sam]

So I had been talking to this typical football jock who happens to be a player and gets around a lot. Although he's met my family and my daughter -whom he adores- he still messes around with other girls and stuff. Says he's not ready to commit and he doesn't wana be with me or anything. Basically treated me like a sideline girl. Then I started talking to this guy that likes me a lot and I kind of kidded on Twitter and called the guy my boyfriend. Next thing I know, the player guy is texting me telling me he's all proud of me and smiley faces and then he texts me to come have sex with him. Naturally I said no. I didn't tell him it wasnt a legit relationship but I let him think it was. Then he lol's or whatever and after a while he texts me "BYE" in all caps and im like "...huh?" He told me to come meet him somewhere and i did. And he just was being mean and bringing up my "bf" alot and i told him "you keot friendzoning me so i moved on" he kept beinf rude soninwalked away and left then he texted me with an apology and basically says he doesn't wanna be friends and stuff cause its not the same considering im now doing someone else and now he's being really standoffish and im so confused. He wants me to wait and be single for him forever?