I've never had a close guy friend or a boyfriend before?

[Lorenna]

I'm 21. I feel stupid that I've never had a close guy friend or a boyfriend before. There were a few guys I liked, but I always blew it. Or the situations were never in favor (like the guy I liked had a girlfriend). I've never even confessed my feelings to anyone.

Now, when I look at girls who've never had boyfriends before it seems like something is wrong with all of them (not pretty enough, too rude, etc.). Is something wrong with me too? And I feel envious of girls who get to speak hours on the phone with guy friends and how is it that I never had that privilege all my life? I have chatted for hours on Facebook, but I don't have a best guy friend. Is it alright or should I change myself?