How can I ever get a job?

[Bozema]

In some ways you have answered your own question and in some ways you are being hard on yourself. You know you need to get involved in some outside activities or internships and build a network and that is the first step you do need to take. At the same time, you have posted this question, so you obviously have some practical computer skills. So you should be less hard on yourself and think about what you can do. You can read and write, have some college and use a computer. That qualifies you for many entry level jobs.

Shyness is tough but everyone is intimidated when trying to get their first job - and their second and third jobs. Putting yourself out there and potentially getting rejected is intimidating but it's part of life and it does get easier over time. Also, not all jobs require an outgoing personality.

Your school probably has a job counselor - have you talked with this person? You may be able to get a paid or unpaid internship while you are still in school that will help you get started. Counselors can also help you prepare a first resume and give you help with the skills you need to contact potential employers. Once you've had a little practice, it should get easier and your confidence will grow. And don't get thrown off by a few rejections. Eventually something will work out. Your first job may not be a dream job, but it will be a beginning.

Almost everybody has to go through this at some point - it's not easy but it's part of life. Good luck.