You ever feel ticked at a friend because they minimize your problems and then capitalize on their own?

[Mem O]

Yes, everybody does it..some people are just good listeners and some aren't. This is just the way people are. Think of it this way, who knows your problems better than you do? Nobody, because nobody else has lived every minute of your life to understand these problems the way you do. So even if your friend wasn't rude and was consoling and understanding, in her head, her problems are much much bigger than yours. Some people will be good listeners and give you a shoulder to cry on, some will be assholes like your friend (just kidding), but every person won't care about your problems like they care for their own. That's just how it is, your friend was just being upfront about it.