Is it okay for your little sister to be more popular than you?

[Zinkee Minkee]

My elder brother was SO good looking in school - girls used to fall all over him and he used to fend them off. He was 6 feet tall , and had aryan features and brown hair and brown eyes. All this is very rare with asian-indian set of genes.

I am 3.5 yrs younger to him. His sister. Short, fat. :-) Zero popularity. Zero boy friends nothing - so much so - at 34 yrs of age (october) I got my first kiss.

Throught out school I had 1 friend, and in college the same friend. :-)

but the big thing is - I NEVER made an effort - I just cried and had wishful thinking that some magic would change things all off a sudden. Zap! It never happened.

Things changed when I made an effort and lost weight :-)

Now - you make an effort - set up that fb account - you will be surprized you get connected to so many on it and start getting invitations to parties. Why should any one call you - when you are sitting comfortably with your two friends behind a wall? You have to be there - in order to be there.

Make plan of doing things - take interest in other people - try to find what they like and how you can make their day better.

It does work out - I know since I was a bigger loner than you :-)