Why do nice guys always finish last?

[Mike Z]

The problem with being successful in school and having a lot of education is that you spend too much time on school-work and you don't get much practice and experience in making friends with the opposite sex.

This kind of thing they don't teach you in school. It's something you need to learn from your mistakes and experiences in life. And this kind of learning people often neglect, when they go to school too much.

The guys who make friends with women and succeed in their relationships with them probably have had a lot more practice in this kind of thing than you. And that's why they are so much better at it than you are.

Many North American women aren't looking for a husband to support them. They are looking for someone whose companionship they like. And for this kind of thing you need to have good social skills rather than academic education from school.

But this kind of thing is true only in westernized countries. If you go to Thailand for example, then there nice guys like you finish first, rather than last. Their culture and way of life is more similar to the way you want it to be.