Was I wrong to break up with my boyfriend for his facebook flirting?

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You thought your boyfriend loved you, but suddenly he seemed to cool off, become distant and then said he wanted to move on. But ending the relationship is the last thing you want. Even though you feel he has betrayed you and let you down you still love him. You want to get back the man you love and have him desire you again.

After a breakup, you might think making your ex boyfriend desire you again will be a hard job. But, stop and think, if he hadn't desired you to begin with, you never would have had a relationship. So, if you made him desire you then, why can't you do it again? The answer is, you can, but to do it you will need to have the correct mindset.

During your relationships there had to be many small spats. When they happened, you probably turned your back on your boyfriend and refused to speak to you. That is how you have to look at the breakup. The same as if it was a spat and you are going to ignore your ex boyfriend and have no contact with him.

As strange as it seems, to get back the man you love, you have to let him go. Not for good, but for a few weeks at least. Making your ex desire you again after a breakup, will take a little longer than after a spat, but you still handle it the same way. Find other things to occupy your time and get a grip on your emotions. If you keep thinking of this as a spat, it will be much easier to get back the man you love.

An expert tip to make your ex boyfriend desire you again, is to disappear. But, first be seen out with your friends having a great time. Make sure your ex boyfriend hears of you activities and then drop out of sight. Take a mini vacation or a trip to visit relatives and friends. Doing this will keep you away from your ex, but it will make him wonder if he is losing you.

Men fall in love from a distance, so the more distance you put between the two of you, the more he will desire you. Remember how you acted uninterested in him at the start and played hard to get? That made him desire you like crazy at that time and making him think you are fine without him now will arouse that desire again.

When your ex boyfriend wants to move on, let him go and show him you can have a life without him. Then use the same tactics you used to get him at the start and before you know it, he will be desiring you again and you will get back the man you love.