I slept with a married man I love, why does it feels so intriguing?

[PowerIsEverything]

Because bad deeds often don't ripen in pain immediately.

If bad things didnt' feel good at first then people wouldn't do them in the first place. But if they felt good forever and never had any bad consequences then they wouldn't be called bad deeds. They're called bad deeds because they hurt other people AND they eventually hurt us as well.

You will start to realize the horrible mess you have gotten yourself into when you fall in love with him and then start wanting him to leave his wife and he refuses. Then you will be the secret mistress who wants to be the wife but is being strung along as he refuses to leave his wife OR he says he will leave his wife but he never does it and he just strings you along for months or years. It will be miserable when this happens to you. And even if he does leave his wife for you and marries you then you will have to worry about him cheating on you like he cheated on his other wife with you. You will constantly be afraid that he will start cheating on you and leave you for yet another woman. It will be a constant mental torture. These are the kinds of sufferings that come from having an affair with a married man (the same goes for men who sleep with married women).

And I haven't even yet mentioned all the other sufferings that come with affairs. His wife will probably eventually find out and she will track you down and call you or come to your house. She might destroy your property or key your car or make a ruckus at your home and bother the neighbors and call you a homewrecker in front of everyone and ruin your reputation and she might come to your job while you're working and b!+ch you out there and possibly get you fired. And she might start harassing you like crazy on the phone and on social media sites and tell all your friends what a horrible homewrecker you are.

She might even go so far as to beat the crap out of you or even kill you (it happens on occasion).

I hope I have made it clear to you how unpleasant affairs are once they start to bear their poisonous fruit.

Best wishes (I'm hoping you're wise enough to let this be a one time mistake and never repeat it (for your own sake) ).