Trying to leave an abusive relationship?

[Rachel]

Stayed with my man for 10 years because he was never abusive in our 5 year dating relationship only for the 10 years I was married to him. It continued to escalate to the point of nearly taking my life. Finally realized I needed to leave. I was at rock bottom emotionally. Luckily I made new friends through my church who continued to encourage me. I went to therapy, took life skills classes, went back to school and fought for custody of my kids over the last 10 years. Two years ago I married a man who was my friend for 5 years. He is amazing. He is my equal. He makes me feel capable and good enough to be with him even though I think he is far better than I deserve. Wish I would have left earlier.