How can I deal with my current relationship situation?

[Danika]

Based on what you have said, it seems she is either unhappy or insecure within herself. I can sit here and speculate but it truely sounds like she has some issues that aren't going away. Her emotions seem very irrational and I don't believe that you should be compromising your happiness and mental well being.

I understand you love her, and she may say that she loves you too... but you don't treat someone you love in this manner. It sounds to me that she feels inadequate about the relationship.

I think the best thing you can do for YOURSELF, is to break it off. Sure it will be hard, but you need someone who is more emotionally stable and who will treat you with the respect you deserve.