tumblr crush- unfollow? follow?

[nukes]

this is so dopey. I have a tumblr crush and I feel like a stalker because I send them anons frequently.

What bothers me is that normally when I anon them they respond and usually laugh at my jokes. (well as much as LOL can show) But when I use my actual screenname...They don't even REPLY!

As guessed, this does wonders to ones psyche. @@
Should I just unfollow them?
no, they answer both types of ques. Anons and Named.
Only once did they answer one of my non-anons ><.