Getting over abusive relationship?

[Sue B]

One can't just get over abuse. One needs a very good therapist first, before moving on to a new relationship. In many cases, where one doesn't seek therapy FIRST, before moving on, they find themselves being with another abuser. I know this from past experience. I had to learn why I was attracted to the abuser. I had to rewire my own head as to what is and was a good attraction. I had learned when to see RED FLAGS. PLEASE get therapy before adventuring into a new relationship. It's NOT ONLY the abuser who needs help, it's also the ABUSED.