Jealousy problems. Help? Urgentttttt!?

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Jealousy could be both a good and bad thing in a relationship. But if it's something that's been bothering you to the extent of disrupting the peace and harmony in your relationship, then there's probably something more to it.

As you've said, there's already an issue of trust between you two as he had lied previously. First of all, how did you resolve this problem before? Did any of you made some compromise or promise? Secondly, what is this deal with his facebook anyway? We all know that this is an age where almost everybody uses this social media as part of their lives, so how could he not spill to his world there that he's happily committed and in a relationship with you?? And lastly, why is it that threats and doubts about 'who's cheating with whom' and 'moving on with another' always comes up when you two get into fights--- aren't you supposed to just be reassuring about being faithful and loving only of one another? Is he willing to do some compromise (especially changing his "flirty" or "nice" demeanor towards other girls) for your peace as you are willing to be more trusting with him?? It's all up to both of you..

The thing is, if this relationship is not inspiring positivity anymore then there's a bigger issue there...is it still healthy to stay with each other ? Are you still in love and working on this relationship because of love..or are you just holding on for security or so?? Are you still happy with him and vice versa??

You need to talk seriously with your boyfriend and try to think of a resolution to your issues (and his')... otherwise you'd be eaten badly by jealousy..

Good luck!