DATING ADVICE NEEDED GUYS AND GIRLS PLEASE... Why do guys pull away after sex?

[happyname693]

Something in the communication isn't working well. He is bothered by something that he's not ready to talk about yet.
To be honest with you, if you aren't official with someone before having sex with them, there's a big chance that you won't get a relationship out of it. Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free? Some call it "friends with benefits". I'm going to tell you something my mom told me when I learned this lesson: It doesn't matter what a man says, if he wants you he will do everything it takes to make you his girlfriend. Period.


No guessing games will be necessary. If he can see himself with you then he would be with you.

If you can accept the possibility that he is just saying things he knows you want to hear in order to have sex with you, then go along with it. If it hurts to think about, perhaps you should let him know you don't want any games and to tell you if he wants a relationship or not.

By avoiding you he is making sure you don't have that conversation.


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