How do I make myself like men more, and not to dismiss them in social situation?

[Kai]

What kind of social situations are these? I think you left the vitals out my dear. Are these bars, clubs, churches, museums, restaurants, after work meetings, plays? Lol, I mean what?

Certainly, at a bar men can just be downright annoying and I have dismissed them just the same. But if you are in PROFESSIONAL social settings, it may be different with whom you come across. Have you went to any social events sponsored by the job? Do you still not socialize with successful men there? If a VP or the like approaches you , do you dismiss him too? I find that hard to believe.

Let yourself go and forget about your past thats all I can say based on this question.