Getting over an abuser?

[Bentley]

It was a long time ago... I was sure it was right to leave but it was hard too... very hard. In hindsight, I think I was a bit addicted to the drama. I missed him, but really I grieved all the hopes and dreams I had about our future. I grieved my hopes that things would change. As horrible as it was ... I was ashamed that I missed him. I got into a therapy group for abused women and found out that not only was it ok to have all these mixed up feelings, but it was normal. Please get some help in dealing with this. There are many women in the world that would love to offer you support in putting your life together in a new direction!!!!!