I need a way to get my ex boyfriend back?

[Francisca]

The only way to at least have a chance at getting an ex back is to re-gain your dignity. This means you must dry those tears, wash your face, stand up tall and proud and without crying but with a re-newed confidence tell him you love him but do not want him if he does not want you, and then you wish him well and let him go. Now, this will be the most difficult thing you ever had to do, but you must do it for any possible chance of winning him back, and if he doesn't come back doing this will make it easier for you to let go because you will be left with your dignity and pride in place. Most times when someone leaves a relationship it is due to many reasons, but the bottom line is that what they used to see in the other person is not there any more. In other words, what once attracted him to you has faded. You must re-gain that attraction.

Once you let him go and do not call him or ask about him in time he will begin to change his mind about you. He will begin to see you with respect and admiration for your strength. This is a slow process and at times you will feel he is not paying attention to how strong you are, but trust me, he will pay attention. He needs to come to see you as a prize to cherish and win, not as a clingy, crying desperate person. Don't cry, it is not over until it is over. Best of luck to you!