I fantasize about subservient women, is that wrong?

[Golgotha]

I believe in gender equality in the workforce and elsewhere, but when it comes to a sexual relationship the idea of taking charge excites me. I have not pursued this desire very well because of my great respect for women and my acute shame for thinking this is hot. But i do prefer certain ethnic groups like Asians for this reason, even though that's a stereotype (that' s been proven dead wrong right before my eyes!). In our modern world this idea has negative connotations because it appears unjust to women, as with Muslim women for example.

But I wonder how many liberated women really WANT to behave this way with men. How many feel they have to keep this a secret for fear of being discriminated against in other areas like work or social arenas? How many worry about "losing power" just by giving up some? Is it wrong or old fashioned to desire women in this way? Why or Why not?
No idea how this turned into a "white girls like black guys" thing since I never mentioned it. Whatever!

@yacoffee~dominating a partner has very little to do with being selfish to me. Perhaps I wasn't clear. I also am not talking about BDSM, just taking the lead....being the "black man" as it were.