My Boyfriend of 3 years moved out and he asked for both of us to take time to re-evaluate our Relationship?

[warneal69]

I just LOVE it when a person post a question with LOTS of detail.

It makes answering it SOOOOO much simpler.

This guy is doing you a favor by breaking up with you. I know, it doesn't feel like it, but it is. He said you have a temper and a "ugly way of being", which I get the feeling you purposely left out telling us about. Which is ok. We don't need to know about that part.

Lets just stick to the parts you told us about. Seeing people who lie, break the law and make promises that they have no intention of keeping are NOT worth dating.

No matter how much you think you love him.

Oh, one other thing. Your 38 years old. I believe its high time you started acting like it.