Im not allowed to date?

[Shadow 114]

Probably the best way you could make her understand your problem would be to tell her you fancy a Girl at school even though you may not this could then bring her into this Century in other words by shock tactics, may seem unfair but if she thinks your unable & keep getting asked out by lads then if you replace this with other Bi Girls at school for instance she is sure to be more worried than she is about going out with a few lads even make sure that as she don't allow you sexual freedom & I do not mean jump into any kind of Sexual behaviour it will help her realise that at some time in the near future this could push you into another area which will be more shocking than allowing you to met lads but ensure & please do only go out Girls when you go out with any lads then this if you put it to her that as she will not allow you to even talk about things with you & explain properly about what your Mother & no doubt your Father would like to keep you under their stronger guidance in today's World then this should do the trick to point out to them of the lack of understanding your awkward position which you would if you get the chance to tell them just what sort of stories are going around at school because of the way they are treating you.

Should then realise they have to meet a happy position with which they have not had to do before now & you must then when everything is finally brought out in the open with them, you have to give or allow them some form of restriction to ensure your knowledgeable enough to understand that you don't intend to even get into the sexual side or even allow any boy to be able to take advantage of you, without the support of real girls & friends which you have & need to make them understand that you want to keep yourself for you & your family in a healthy none sexual capacity until you meet your later years or even when you get married so this places you in a reasonable position to allow them some control on who & where you go in other words your with a group of girls along with lads giving you all the backup so as anyone cannot force themselves onto you Which I am sure is their biggest worry. Best Wishes.