Sould i ask this guy out on valentines day ??????

[OceanRose]

NO! For heaven's sake, no!

GUYS pursue. They may be flattered when a girl does the pursuing and initiating, and they may like her...but they'll never fall in love with her. I've known men who even marry the woman who pursued them, and in every single case, the men were never, ever in love with their wives. They "respected" them. They "liked" them. Or it's--this line none of us ever wants to hear--"I love her but I'm not IN LOVE with her."

Men have their "types." if a man hasn't asked you out by this time, only eight days away from Valentine's Day, take the hint: this isn't meant to be. Either you're not his type, or he's already got his eye on someone else, or...whatever. Who knows? But he's not pursuing you--therefore, he is not that interested in you, for whatever reason.

So just look nice, be nice, be happy, and if you do wind up being alone on Valentine's Day, have a back-up plan. But above all, be very thankful that what you DON'T have is a humiliating, vague, confusing date experience with a man who you sense is not totally there with you on that special day! There's always another Valentine's Day! And who knows? The guy who really sees you and "recognizes" you, pursues you and loves you--and whom you love--may show up by the next one! Blessings and best success to you!