Trying to forget an abusive boyfriend?

[thomchez]

At this point, the problem is no longer him. Now the problem is you. You have allowed him to destroy your self-confidence. Now you don't think you're attractive and because you no longer see yourself as a beautiful person, it's going to be hard for others to see you that way. You need an overhaul, a complete makeover. It starts with your attitude. You must get your mojo back. Start with getting a new hairstyle/haircut. Something that shows your sexy, sassy side. Then you need to stand in the mirror and tell yourself every good thing you know about yourself. See that you are still a good looking woman. You are smart and have a nice personality. People liked you before him and people will like you again now that he is no longer in your life. The best years of your life are not behind you baby. Your best years are in front of you, but nobody can convince you of that...but you. You have got to believe that you are on your way up. There are plenty of guys who would be glad to get with you. Men get over women by dating other women. That's what you need to do. There is a guy out here who will gladly treat you the way a woman should be treated. You've been looking all around and this man is probably right in front of your face. So stop playing in your past and get back into the game of life. Your future looks brighter than your past. Now get busy living cause if you ain't living, you ain't living. You are still young baby and you are going to be alright, ok. Now go get your happy baby.