How can I see if my dad is monitoring my new laptop?

[Marly]

My dad bought me a laptop for Christmas, but he told me not to do anything weird with it. (i think we know what that means) and so I was wondering how i can tell whether or not he is monitoring it? Like watching it? He's pretty good with technology seeing as to he owns a business and has the authority to look over everyone else's computer screen from his own one computer. Confusing, but I'm not going to look up weird stuff or download virus' so can someone tell me how to tell?

I'm only wanting to disable this because even if I want to chat my friend on Facebook, i'd rather not have my dad reading all my messages.
Thank you!